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Some relationships are not meant to last, so when they do end, let them rest peacefully in death. Often times, people make the mistake of still being friends with their ex- lovers on the sentiments of “I once love him/her”, forgetting that their relationship might had started with them being friends with their ex before growing into a relationship.
When you have a new lover and she or he finds out that you are in contact with your ex, it gives room for insecurity, because your new beau will feel, your ex must have been so special for you to still hold on to her/ him and may feel he or she can’t meet up to that expectations. This will definitely cause crisis in your new relationship and put it to death before an anniversary.
Let your Ex be your Ex!!! No need to revisit old wounds or to dwell on the past. You both broke up for a reason, and there is a new person who may really love you and who you will be hurting because of the ” Care” you are showing your ex.
It’s simple, if you buy a new shoe because the old one has holes in front, will you keep polishing and cleaning the old one while you neglect the new one? of course not, you will discard the old one and take care of the new one.
Promises are retractable, do not use promises as the basis of destroying the relationship with your new lover. Know what you want, do you still want your ex because you still love the person? Or do you want to move on with this new person? Make a choice so you won’t hurt the new person and regret your actions later.
Relationship is a growing tree, insecurities axe it down. This has been Relationship Corner, don’t forget to like, share and comment. I remain your homie Eddie Schwaggs.